In matters of selecting a spouse, both men and women have
the right to choose the right partner. It is known in Islam whose name is
'kufu' (viable and harmonious), and a guardian has the right marriage partner
for her daughter to pick someone who sekufu, although the meaning kufu most
common among the scholars is co-religionists.
Other meanings such as matches, is also the meaning that can
not be denied, thus SELECTION PROCESS THAT HAPPENS TO ANY MALE OR FEMALE. On
the other hand that choosing a life partner by considering the various sides,
provided at a reasonable considerations as well as Islamic, the representation
is a necessity of life and liberty of God which He bestowed on every human
being, including in choosing a husband or wife. Aisyah Ra said, 'Marriage is
the essence of servitude, then he should see where his honor will be placed'.
To further solidify the choice if we
are confused we can do good istikhorah prayers at midnight and in the
beginning, and do it repeatedly. If it has been done many times so DEFINITENESS
THAT THERE IS A GOD willing, HIS INSTRUCTIONS, AND THAT'S MORE FOLLOWED. But
keep in mind, that information is dominant in a person are often more
influential on istikhorah, therefore it needs to be done many times.
Prophet also said, 'He who match his
honor with the ungodly he had cut her womb' (HR Ibnu Hibban). The Prophet also
gave consideration to a sahabiyah who came to him as he requested consideration
of two people who would propose, then the Prophet replied, 'As for Muawiyah ibn
Abi Sufyan, he's very light hand (aka easy to hit), while the other is that
poor people do not have a lot of treasure. " Then the Prophet married her
to Zaid bin Harithah.
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